Talking about death may not be the ideal dinner conversation, but let’s face it – planning for that final act is something that crosses everyone’s mind at some point. While most people have a vague idea of when they’d like to go (hopefully not too soon!), and how they want to be remembered – whether it’s a dream funeral or deciding who inherits that vintage record collection – there’s one thing we rarely discuss: what would you really want to be doing when you take your last breath?
Choice Mutual, an insurance agency specializing in final expense life insurance, was curious to find out exactly that! Would you prefer to slip away peacefully while tending to your garden, or go out with a bang cheering on your favorite team in the final moments of a nail-biting game? Or perhaps you’d choose something you truly love – like hiking your favorite trail or catching the perfect wave. After all, why not make your last moments the ultimate bucket list experience? Choice Mutual’s survey revealed some fascinating options, a few of which are highlighted below.
For Georgians, the ideal final toast would be with a Georgia Peach Martini in hand. With its sweet, refreshing taste, it’s a delicious way to savor the finer things in life. For them, it would be a tribute to good times and Southern hospitality – a sweet farewell indeed.
Meanwhile, residents of Hawaii would rather indulge in their last meal. They envision their final moments enjoying a plate of kalua pig, with its smoky flavor and melt-in-your-mouth tenderness – a true taste of aloha that encapsulates the spirit of the islands.
Mississippians would prefer to spend their last hours in a dimly lit blues bar, sipping a drink while soaking in the soulful tunes of a live band. It’s the essence of Mississippi’s charm – a place where music tells stories and the drinks flow as smoothly as the melodies.
Unsurprisingly, Nevadans dream of a more thrilling exit – hitting the slot machines or poker tables in a Las Vegas casino. With its bright lights and endless excitement, it’s a final thrill like no other. Whether you’re on a winning streak or just soaking up the atmosphere, it’s all about the gamble. If you’re going to roll the dice one last time, Las Vegas is the place to do it.
In contrast, Granite Staters would choose a more tranquil and reflective departure. Leaf peeping in Franconia Notch State Park, surrounded by vibrant fall colors, is a New England tradition that never disappoints. The crisp air, the crunch of leaves underfoot, and the stunning views make it the perfect setting for a peaceful, picturesque farewell.
Finally, Louisianans would choose to go out with a bang – celebrating at Mardi Gras. With its colorful parades, lively music, and endless festivities, it’s the ultimate way to let the good times roll. For them, it’s all about living life to the fullest. If you’re going to make a grand exit, why not do it in the midst of the biggest party of the year?
Infographic showing survey results
As for who they’d want by their side, 50% said they’d prefer to be surrounded by friends and family, while 19% opted for the presence of one special person. Interestingly, 13% would want their pet with them, proving that our four-legged friends hold a special place in our hearts until the very end.
When asked about the vibe they’d want in their last hour, 27% chose to spend it laughing out loud, embracing the joy and humor in life, while nearly 24% preferred a calm and reflective atmosphere. Another 22% hoped for a spiritual journey, focusing on peace, closure, and spirituality.
And how would they like their life to be celebrated afterward? A big party was the top choice for 31% of Americans, while a quiet memorial was preferred by 29%. A unique 15% wanted a tree-planting ceremony, symbolizing life, growth, and a lasting legacy.
When it comes to their obituary, 21% hoped it would start with “Always Made People Laugh,” reflecting the importance of humor and joy. Meanwhile, 19% wanted to be remembered as having “Lived Life to the Fullest” or as being “Beloved by Family and Friends.” Each sentiment tells a story of how they wished to be remembered – whether through love, laughter, or a life well-lived.
“Planning for the end of life can feel daunting, but it’s also an opportunity to think about how we want to be remembered and what truly matters to us,” says Anthony Martin, CEO & Founder of Choice Mutual. “Our survey revealed that people want their final moments to reflect their passions and joys, whether that’s enjoying a favorite meal, celebrating at a festival, or simply being surrounded by nature. It’s a reminder that life is about making the most of every moment – even the very last one.”
