Nita Marie, a Christian model with a history of divorce, is once again the subject of media buzz, but with a poignant caution regarding her digital footprint. While she openly expresses her body and sexuality through her work, she emphatically cautions married men to steer clear of her racy content, pointing to her own previous experiences as a somber lesson.
Identified by her social media moniker @love_nitamarie, she has gained recognition for her frank discourse on faith and sexuality, even blending religious motifs into her offerings. Yet, she adamantly defends the sanctity of matrimonial bonds.
“In my first marriage, we didn’t have sex for seven years – but he was watching p*rn,” Nita Marie recounts. “It caused a lot of problems because he was doing that instead of being intimate with me. I would prefer if married men didn’t look at my pictures and videos because I know how I felt when it happened to me.”
Her convictions stem from a deep-seated belief in marriage’s sacredness and a commitment to fostering genuine intimacy within marital unions. She advises married men to reserve their passions for their spouses, rather than seeking gratification in online provocations.
“I know that doing this work is encouraging some men to look at me on the internet versus looking at their wife, and I don’t agree with that,” she declares. “If they are going to look, they should only do it as a way to get aroused for their wives.”
Despite potential backlash, Nita Marie perceives her modelling as empowering for women, especially those within the Christian community. With her visual content and her literary work, The Sacred Butterfly, she aims to subvert established norms and assist women in reclaiming ownership of their bodies and sexuality.
“My modelling’s been a way to embrace my new body and find my sexuality again, this time focusing on my pleasure,” she explains. “Now I want to help other women heal their relationship with their body and with their sexuality.”
Bolstered by renewed confidence and the support of her current partner, Nita Marie is unwavering in her goal, professing that she is “doing God’s work.” Irrespective of criticism, she remains devoted to her vision of sexual emancipation within the bounds of religious values.
