A recent poll revealed that 1 in 5 singles surveyed believe the usual coffee shop rendezvous or the familiar clink of glasses at the local bar are boring and outdated ideas for first dates. The contemporary single is in pursuit of an experience, a story to tell, an adventure to embark upon from the very first ‘hello.’
With an array of unique offerings sweeping the nation, from pop-up speakeasies to adrenaline-pumping activities like escape rooms or twilight zip-lining, first dates are transforming into experiences that not only impress but also create lasting memories.
DatingNews.com commissioned a poll (run by QuestionPro) of 3,000 singles to establish the top first date options in the U.S. – the types of dates to set hearts racing. Participants were asked to highlight the date spots that excited them the most, the places where sparks could fly. The findings shed light on the most thrilling dating suggestions that could inspire countless romantics across America.
- Charleston Carriage Ride & Historic Stroll, South Carolina.
Charleston Carriage Ride & Historic Stroll was voted as the nation’s overall top pick for a first date experience. Couples can experience the elegance of a horse-drawn carriage ride through Charleston’s cobblestone streets, while admiring its architecture and rich history. They can follow it up with a romantic walk through landscaped gardens and charming alleys.
2. San Antonio River Walk Cruise, Texas.
In second position was this popular Texan river cruise. Couples can embark on a leisurely cruise along the San Antonio River Walk, and take in the city’s landmarks and vibrant atmosphere. Afterward, they can share a romantic stroll hand-in-hand, and enjoy the twinkling lights and street performers.
3. Romantic Boone & Scenic Valley Railroad Dinner Train Ride, Iowa.
Singles voted the Boone & Scenic Valley Railroad’s dinner train ride in third place overall. It is a unique and romantic dining experience through Iowa’s scenic landscapes.
4. Dolphin Watching Cruise from Hilton Head, South Carolina.
In Hilton Head, couples can go on a romantic boat tour in search of playful dolphins frolicking in the coastal waters. Couples can share the excitement of spotting these majestic creatures, as they can capture stunning ocean panoramas together.
5. Stargazing on Mauna Kea, Hawaii.
Singles voted stargazing on Mauna Kea as one of the most unique experiences for a first date. If things go well, couples can bundle up against the cool mountain air, marvel at the Milky Way stretching across the inky sky and share awe-inspiring moments with each other.
6. Vintage Train Ride on the Western Maryland Scenic Railroad, Maryland.
The 6th most popular first date option involves traveling back in time on a romantic train ride through the scenic hills of Maryland on the Western Maryland Scenic Railroad. Daters can relax in vintage carriages, admire breathtaking landscapes, and enjoy a gourmet meal aboard the “Cumberland Dinner Train.”
7. Sunset Cruise on the Outer Banks, North Carolina.
Cruises proved particularly popular among daters. This one on North Carolina’s Outer Banks was the second cruise option to make the top 10 list. Couples can enjoy watching the sun dip below the horizon, listen to the waves, and share breathtaking views with each other.
8. Key West Butterfly Conservatory, Florida.
Couples can immerse themselves in a vibrant wonderland of fluttering wings at the Key West Butterfly Conservatory. They can stroll through lush gardens teeming with colorful butterflies, learn about their vital role in the ecosystem, and create a truly magical date experience.
9. Luxury Car Experience Down Ocean Drive, Miami.
For the 9th top pick, couples can cruise in style along Miami’s Ocean Drive, surrounded by luxury cars and the vibrant energy of Miami’s famous Art Deco district, with its colorful buildings and bustling street life.
10. Grand Ole Opry & Honky Tonk Crawl, Tennessee.
And rounding out the top 10 was this experience in the heart of Nashville’s music scene. Daters can catch a show at the legendary Grand Ole Opry, featuring country music icons and rising stars. Afterward, they can hop around lively honky tonks on Broadway, catching snippets of diverse performances and sharing a dance or two.
The full list of 150 most unique first date destinations can be found here.
