In her quest for a fulfilling romantic relationship, Chloe Amour, a 32-year-old model hailing from Los Angeles, has adopted a stringent dating approach aimed at filtering out unsuitable suitors, a tactic she hopes will spare her from encountering individuals who fall short of her expectations. Despite her substantial online following, Chloe has curated a definitive list of dating dos and don’ts to navigate the complex world of modern romance successfully.
The content creator’s criteria for potential partners are not only pragmatic but also reflective of her personal values. She now shies away from those she deems “closed-minded” and gravitates towards more mature individuals, often favoring older men. Her list of ‘must-haves’ includes qualities such as being a “good kisser” and possessing emotional intelligence. Conversely, her ‘dealbreakers’ encompass traits like “dishonesty,” “bad hygiene,” and an excessive penchant for “too much partying.”
Finances play a pivotal role in Chloe’s dating calculus, considering her substantial earnings of £16,000 ($20,600 USD) per month, culminating in an impressive annual income of £192,000. She views financial stability as paramount, a perspective shaped by her upbringing where financial hardship was a constant concern.
Chloe shared, “Financial security is a big one for me, and some people judge me for it. I didn’t come from money, and my mom struggled trying to raise me and my sister alone, so if the guy I’m dating doesn’t make an equivalent salary to me or more, then I won’t even consider him as a potential suitor. This isn’t the only thing that is important to me, but it’s at the top of the list.”
Her preference for older partners is rooted in her belief that men often require more time to mature and accumulate life experiences. She clarified, “I generally prefer older men because men take a longer time to mature and are more experienced in different areas of their lives. I don’t look out for older divorced men but prefer he hasn’t been married or has kids. I like someone who is confident, independent, and very driven.”
However, Chloe emphasizes that her criteria extend beyond superficial attributes. She seeks intelligence, humor, spirituality, and an openness to mutual growth in a partner. “I don’t go based on looks first,” she explained. “I need someone who is smart, funny, and spiritual, someone I can learn from and teach me things but is also willing to learn from me. Someone who doesn’t judge and is understanding, and someone who is sexually experienced is a must.”
The motivation behind Chloe’s stringent dating standards arose from less-than-pleasant experiences in the dating realm. She recalled instances where her dates exhibited undesirable behavior, including excessive drinking and attempting to mooch off her financially.
Chloe offers advice for potential suitors looking to win her heart in real life: “I’ve only tried a couple of apps (Bumble and Tinder) for fun or when I’m bored but just seems like the guys on there aren’t very physically attractive or they’re insecure. Mostly, I want a good listener and communicator, someone who makes me feel wanted and feel safe. Someone who can own up to their mistakes and admit when they’re wrong. If I’m being picky about looks then I like guys who have dark features and are tan. I prefer brunettes and guys who work out but aren’t too muscular or bulky. Clean shaven and their hair can’t be longer than mine.”
